The Power of Kindness & Compassion For Young Students
The Power of Kindness & Compassion For Young Students

The Power of Kindness & Compassion For Young Students

Contributed by 3rd grade teacher Matt Callahan

At our weekly class meeting, the students of 3A got to meet Eleanor, a very special chicken. When Eleanor was born, her flock established the pecking order, and put her at the bottom. Somehow, along the way, Eleanor’s brain was damaged. As a result, Eleanor walks differently than other chickens. In fact, she walks like a penguin! She has to be kept separated from the rest of the flock to keep her safe, but she is an amazingly quick and friendly animal.

As a class we discussed how the animal world often functions in ways that might be seen as violent or cruel. We contrasted this with how we as humans have an opportunity to practice kindness to and acceptance of one another. Students were amazed at how comfortable Eleanor was around humans. She walked around the circle eating out of student’s hands. At the end of our time, she crawled into the lap of a student and proceeded to fall asleep. Many students remarked that Eleanor’s differences helped her to experience life in a profoundly different way than other chickens. They connected this with the Disability Awareness Program we had last week and wondered how students with disabilities might interact with the world in a different and beneficial way. It was a powerful afternoon!

Editor’s Note: This valuable and moving moment for our students reflects back to one of the messages in Mark Silver’s reflections on “Most Likely To Succeed,” as we grasp the vital importance of social-emotional growth alongside  opportunities for academic learning in our modern world:

An article in this past weekend’s New York Times, “The Best Jobs Require Social Skills,” argues that what we learned in preschool is the key to success in the work world. Cooperation, empathy, and flexibility  – skills commonly taught in early childhood programs – are increasingly understood to be essential skills for lifelong success. “Work has become more like preschool,” the author Claire Cain Miller insists, noting that “Jobs that require both socializing and thinking, especially mathematically, have fared best in employment and pay.” She points to the work of James Heckman, a Nobel-prize winning economist, who argues that “character, dependability, and perseverance are as important as cognitive achievement.”

At Hillbrook, we have always believed that social emotional skills are as important as academic achievement. From Kindergarten study teams, where they learn to work together as they explore shared passions, to the 8th grade play, where the entire class comes together to produce a complex theatrical production, we create numerous opportunities for students to work together and to focus on being their best, both as individuals and as a group.

– Mark Silver, “Most Likely To Succeed” glimpses into the future of school

Through their discoveries during Disability Awareness Week and visit with our special chicken, the 3rd grade class came face-to-face with an organic opportunity to express empathy, compassion, and kindness for those around them. Their reflections on Eleanor’s plight were heartwarming, insightful, and speaks to the emotional growth that Hillbrook students are inspired to partake in as each of our learners are inspired to reach beyond themselves and consider the needs of others – and that includes our furry and feather-bodied friends.

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